Breakin' Up Is Hard to Do: Etiquette for Switching Voice Teachers

As singers, our journeys are constantly evolving — and sometimes that means it’s time for a change in who’s guiding us. Whether you’re switching because of new goals, a move, or just needing a different teaching style, how you handle that transition matters. Here’s some simple etiquette to help you move on respectfully and set yourself (and your teachers) up for success.

1. Be Transparent With Your Current Teacher

It might feel uncomfortable, but being honest with your teacher about why you’re moving on is an important courtesy. Maybe you’re just looking for a fresh perspective. Maybe your goals have shifted. Even if it’s not personal, sharing your reasons gives the teacher valuable feedback and a sense of closure.

2. Give Ample Notice (and Consider Compensation)

If you’re still on your teacher’s schedule, be respectful of their time. Try to give a few weeks’ notice — not just a last-minute text. In some cases, it’s appropriate to offer payment for a few canceled lessons, especially if it leaves a gap they can’t easily fill.

3. Come Prepared With Repertoire

When you start with a new teacher, show up organized. Have a list of pieces you’ve worked on before — what you loved, what you struggled with, and what you’re curious about. It’ll help your new teacher get a feel for where you are and where you want to go.

4. Set Clear Goals

Know what you want to accomplish in your new lessons. Are you prepping for auditions or competitions? Expanding your range? Working on style? Having some specific goals will make it easier for your new teacher to help you hit the ground running.

5. Leave the Door Open

No matter what, leave on good terms. Don’t ghost your old teacher, and definitely don’t trash-talk them. You never know when your paths might cross again — in auditions, productions, or even just through mutual colleagues. Keeping things cordial is not only respectful; it’s smart for your future career.

Changing teachers doesn’t have to be dramatic — in fact, it can be one of the most empowering steps you take in your musical journey. If you’ve ever made a switch (or are thinking about it), I’d love to hear: What made the process easier for you? Share your thoughts in the comments!